I am looking for people have actually been in one. What was it like? How were the parties? How many girls did you hook-up with? Any ex-frat member, tell me your experience.
I would highly recommend it. I joined one during my first semester at college straight out of high school. It was a great way to meet people, both guys and girls. I went to San Diego State so the parties were insane when I was there. There will be plenty of girls to hook up with but you also need to be careful about that also. Some of my closest friends today are fraternity brothers that I met during that first year in college. Needless to say it was probably some of the best memories I have. So yes you need to find the right fraternity for you and join!